Relationship Breakup

Everybody falls in love and then later on breaks up. The world looks beautiful when we are in love. But it doesn't last long. The relationship ends for whatever reason maybe. Either we end up breaking or the other person wants the breakup.

There are different ways of breaking up. Some people would simply disappear without saying anything about the breakup. Some would hang on because he/she doesn't want to break up with you.Some people will give you a piece meal information when you ask them.

I think at this juncture  of breakup we have to be more understanding. We have to explain to them the reasons for breakup in detail. The person will in great pain. If possible request him/her for breakup and set you free. He/she will understand you and will be happy to let you go. Tell them that you have shared good times together and had so much fun. Maybe write him/her  a letter and explain to him/her in detail for the detail. Please be honest about everything you write and tell the person. That way, it will be easier for both of you. There won't be so much pain in the breakup. It will be easier for other person to heal the heart and move on fast. That person won't lose trust. I have met heart broken people online and they are still struck in pain and couldn't move on because their breakup has not be proper and good.

Let us be little more kinder by being honest and talking to them in person then just disappearing when breakup. I pray that breakup do not happen in the first place.

My third favourite book- "The alchemist" by Paulo Coelho

My dear readers,
Wish you a happy belated new year!. I was busy with the project which was due to be submitted on 31st December, 2011. I couldn't finish by the latest deadline. I managed to finish late. I was so engrossed with the project work that I didn't get time to wish you.

The year 2011 has come to an end. I will take the opportunity to thank all my readers for reading my posts and passing their comments and appreciations. When I saw the topic of my blog posts being searched on google search engine, I get inspired to write more posts.

Have you started to collect books to build up your home library? It would be better to start now. One idea is enough to change our life. The source of ideas are from books.
If you want to improve your personal and professional life, just refer the how to do books and they will improve your life for the better.

I have indicated two favourite books in my earlier two posts. The third favourite book is "The Alchemist" by Paulo Coelho. It is a book which inspires us to dream and pursue our dreams. The universe will help you to achieve your dreams. The life will throw you signs and omens to indicate that you are going is right or wrong directions.

I have debated with my mind hundred times whether to put this book as my second favourite book instead of "the monk who sold his ferrari" by Robin sharma. However, this book has taken the world by storm and I made up my mind to keep it in the second place.

So, if you want to get a gist or read my third favourite book written by Paulo Coelho, the book is available at www.amazon.com. You can click on link given below:

The book is available at any bookstore.
Wish you a happy belated new year and enjoy reading this book.

My second favourite book

I have indicated that my first favourite book is " Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill. My second favourite book is " The Monk who sold his ferrari" by Robin Sharma. It has taken the world by storm. Indeed it has taken my  life by storm too.
Before reading this book, I used to believe that happiness is all in the state of mind. I used to make up my mind to be happy. Of course, I was happy for few minutes. What I felt was that something is amiss. This book is introduced to me by one of my best friends. After reading this book, I have experienced true happiness. I realized that we can experience true happiness.

If you fell that something is missing in your life, you should certainly read this. You can find it in any bookstore at cheap price.
This book tells us of following our dreams and be passionate about everything you do, fill our negative thoughts with good thoughts. The most important of all, you experience true happiness after reading it. If I tell you the story, the charm of reading will be lost. So, I  keep  for you to read and change for your life for the better.
Check this bookstore if you intend to buy online. This book is available in any local bookstore.


You won't regret buying this book.
To your happiness

Book collection

If you have a garden and books, then you have everything in this world. Books open windows of wonderful opportunities. One of my hobby is reading books on personal  and professional development.

I was inspired by one of closest friends to read books three years back.Since then, there was no looking back. I bought books at airports and train stations. I have a collection of books and some of my favourites are given below:

Think and Grow Rich By Napoleon Hill

What I liked about this book is that with the help of our mind, it is possible to achieve everything we want in this world. This book is a classic book and this is my number one favorite book. Next favourite books will be mentioned in coming posts.

If you do not have collections, start with this. You can get this book in every book store at low price.

All the best!

Head or Heart?

Did it ever happen to you that you didn't know whom to follow? Either heart or head? So, what really happens in love is that your heart loves someone very much. Your head says he/she is not your right person and you shouldn't pursue him/her. Then you follow your head and never approach that person. You are simply scared to go against your head.

Then what happens is that in due course of time, the person you love is involved into relationship with another person.When you hear this, your heart is broken into thousand pieces.Then, the head feels so sorry for the heart and knows that you love this person very much. At this juncture, head says heart is right and try to get the person back. 

Then, the emotions and feelings of the heart died down and you become heartless.You will mourning for the loss of beloved one.You will be regretting for not telling the person that you love him/her.

Did this ever happen to you?

Teach your children to read.

Do you encourage your children to read books? If  not, you can start now. Teach your children to read books and your children will be grateful to you for that. Instead of sitting in front of television, you can sit with your children and read books for them and teach them to read  also. You know that reading has many benefits as follows:

• Reading is said to lower your blood pressure.
• Reading can open whole new world to the children and will develop his or her memory.
• It can help in personal development.
• It can give you ideas to solve any kind of problem and will help children to lead independent life.
• It can improve your career.                                                

Next time, when you sit down with your children infront of idiot box, think about the benefits of reading books.

Parents can encourage children to read by gifting them books and reading with them or reading for them every half hour on daily basis. You will be happy that you did that and your children will be grateful to you for that.

If you are really interested in helping your children to become successful in school, check this store.

To you and your children's success!

are you living fully?

We are born only once and we will be treading on the planet earth only once. We are not sure what our next life will be and where we will be born. We have this one lifetime and we have to live it to the fullest without any regrets on our death bed. Are you living fully? If not, it is never late to do so.Better late than never. I have come across one quotation which will help us to live to the fullest.

" To laugh often and love much; to win the respect of intelligent persons and the affection of children; to earn the approbation of honest critics; to appreciate beauty; to give of one's self, to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child,  a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to have played and laughed with enthusiasm and sung with exultation; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived- that is to have succeeded" by Ralph Waldo Emerson.

By following the above quotation, we will find meaning and purpose in our life. We have a bigger purpose of serving the community  and the world than living for oneself.

Wishing for you to live to the fullest.

Happiness within you

Did you read a book titled "The power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle? I love this book.There is a story given in prologue of this book. It tells  a story about a beggar begging on the street. A stranger comes to him and asks him about the box on which the beggar is sitting. He asks the beggar whether he has opened the box or not. The beggar says "No" and the stranger asks to open it. To his amazement, the beggar finds gold and silver coins in the box. The stranger says, you are sitting on the box of gold coins and you are begging for coins from other. This is the same case with happiness.

We look for happiness outside when it can be found within us. By living in the present, we can find happiness. If we remember the past, it brings guilt and regret and if we think about the future, it brings fear and anxiety. If we live in the present, there is no regret, guilt, fear and anxiety. So, live fully in the present. Be alive and don't let your music within die. Play, have fun and at the same time do your work or study. This is life.

To your happiness!

Yoga for Super Brain

If you have been worrying about your failing memory, you have come to the right place. As  we grow older, our memory fails to keep up with age. If you have also been struggling to lose weight, then you have come to the right place as well.

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KSwhpF9iJSs.

What I liked about this yoga is that it is very simple, keeps me alert and makes me smart. It has improved my memory and at the same time helped me to reduce my weight. I have developed stamina to study for longer duration because of this yoga. You can try this yoga. Click to link below to watch the video:

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KSwhpF9iJSs

I hope it helps to improve your memory and reduce your weight.

To your  memory improvement and weight loss!

Are you on rebound?

Do you think you are  on rebound? Do you always think about the ex boyfriend or girl friend? Do you always compare any person with your ex? Do you always talk to your friends about the physical appearances of your ex? If you answer to all these question "yes", then you are on rebound. That means you haven't moved on and given up the relationship emotionally.

When you are on rebound, you see the physical image of your ex in other person. Let's say, your ex boyfriend or girlfriend was very tall. Next time, when you meet  a tall person, you will be reminded of your ex and you will become emotionally attached to this person because of his physical appearance without knowing his innate qualities. Later on when your heart is healed, you will find yourself that you are with wrong person.

You tend to compare any person with your ex and find that he/she isn't better than your ex. That isn't good either.

If you remember your past love story with sadness instead of happiness, then you are on rebound and not in position to fall in love because you are on rebound. When you fall in love with a person when you are on rebound, you aren't being fair to yourself and to that new person.

However, you can heal your heart and move on. Love is the greatest gift you can give yourself and to the world.When you are in pain, your friends and family can feel the burden. They will be in pain.

So heal your heart and move on. I heard that it takes six months to heal your heart.I wish you all the best.